Hi, can anyone recommend any books with all three elements?

For reference, I enjoyed:
Lois McMaster Bujold's Vorkosigan saga;
Gini Koch's Kitty Katt series; and
Kaitlyn O'Connor's The Ninth Orb and her Cyberevolution series.

Sharon Lee & Steve Miller's Liaden series
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liaden_universe

Ilona Andrews, Nalini Singh and Shelly Laurenston were suggested by my friend Kerry.

In Death series by J.D. Robb (minimal sci-fi; it's set in the future, has holo-decks/auto chefs/interplanetary habitation, but the main focus is Lt. Eve solving a murder and her relationship with Roarke)

But if you wanted urban fantasy/romance/comedy, I could make a list!

Old Man's War by John Scalzi. Not a ton of romance but very funny.

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For a light fantasy and romance I recommend Ghost Mountain Wolves by Audrey Faye. You have to start with the first - Alpha

A Crown of Shards series and Black Blade series by Jennifer Estep.
Innkeeper Chronicles and Kate Daniels series by Ilona Andrews.